I’m a bad wife. I confess that I don’t always give my husband 100% of my attention. Maybe not even 75%. I’m trying to turn over a new leaf. But in the meantime, you may learn something about communication from my failure to accurately follow my husband’s parking instructions.
Lesson 1: Don’t over-explain
As a financial advisor, you’ve probably given instructions to people—clients, employees, vendors, and fellow professionals—who are distracted as they listen to you. If you give them too many details, they may zero in on the wrong points and make mistakes.
In my case, my husband gave me very detailed instructions about where he wanted me to park my car and why I should park there. It involved our shed, his tires, the garage, and the patio. Since I wasn’t listening closely, I imagined a mistaken scenario in which his tires were in the shed, so he needed me to park far back in the driveway.
If only my husband had said, “Please park in the driveway like you usually do when I need to park on the patio. You can’t park in the garage because…”
Lesson 2: Listen and ask questions
My husband forgave me for messing up, but you may not be as lucky if you don’t listen to the folks giving you instructions.
If you can’t concentrate on the conversation, maybe you should wait until another time to get instructions. Or ask questions to confirm that you’ve understood the instructions properly.
I plan to try one of these two methods the next time my husband asks me to do something for him.
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